Becoming your own advocate means you must learn how to critically research and develop critical thinking skills. I consider personal advocacy to be an inner boundary (something I will discuss later).
Being your own Advocate means you must be a leader. You have the break the mold of putting your life into the hands of strangers you know nothing about. These people should be working for you and not the other way around.
We should be interviewing these people, they should be earning our trust, we are their boss, there should be no point in our treatment plan that they are our boss. They are the people we are using to get a service done, if their ego or inability gets in the way of achieving your goals then they are failing in the duties they were hired for. When this happens it is time for you to fire them.
If you hired someone to fix your motor vehicle would you hire them again if they failed to fix the part you paid them to repair? Would you hire them again if they refused to follow your instructions? No, of course you wouldn’t, so why are we shelling out thousands and thousands of dollars to health care professionals who are not meeting or exceeding our expectations.
Something has got to change and the only way I can see that change happening is if we have a greater understanding of our care. If we take charge of our treatment plan and learn how to say NO, we can become a true advocate for our own health. We have to be our own advocate. This WE is more than just cancer patients, this is everyone. Everyone has to be made aware of how to demand the service they deserve because they are paying for it, the service they deserve because they are a human being.